Why does perfect Love (God) event-u-ally lift you and all the kingdom of God within you higher than high?

Well, God wanted to created people to love Him and one another. We don't do that and that's sad. So then God gets angry that we don't love as He says to and He put plagues and punishments for not loving as he says to do. What is love? Love is believing what God says to do is right, love is not thinking your better than everyone else, love is being kind and respectful of others, love is giving, love is being sympathetic and compionate. A holy loving God hates and can not tolerate anyone that does not love. Truth is that there are people in this world that only think of themselves and don't have any regards for God or other peoples feelings. Truth is that there are people in this world that think of God and others before themselves and would never hurt anyone or kill anyone.